This interview was originally part of the Silent Bonds: Facing Sex Addiction series In order for privacy, the interviewee’s name has been kept anonymous. V.H: When did your sexual compulsion start? A: I guess it started about when I was eleven. That’s when I started my compulsive masturbation and my addiction to porn. I… [Read more…]
February 24, 2012
Humans love sex. We’re obsessed by it. And why not? It’s one of life’s greatest joys and pleasures, the highest physical bond between lovers, the source of new life. Sex makes the human world go round. But when is sex too much sex? Drug and alcohol addiction have gained wide-acceptance as mental and physical diseases,… [Read more…]
February 14, 2012
Valentine’s Day: the day couples celebrate their love. Couples, mind you. And couples have a special sort of love that family and friends don’t– romantic love. Which is basically a fancy way of saying sex. Yes, Valentine’s is the day of sex. That doesn’t mean that “romance” doesn’t have a place in it. Of course… [Read more…]
January 27, 2012
As we all know, the internet- for better or worse- revolutionized pornography. Almost overnight, porn became free, and abundant. Anything for any fantasy became available, hence the creation of the famous Rule 34 (“If it exists, there is porn of it”). Internet porn was an instant hit, to say the least. According to the Internet… [Read more…]
December 8, 2011
Christmas-time. It’s probably the last time of year you would associate with sex. Santa, reindeer, elves… not very sexy at all. But December has a few things other months don’t: longer nights, time off work, plenty of alcohol and parties and, of course, it’s cold outside– driving people under the covers to “cuddle,” i.e. warm… [Read more…]
December 1, 2011
Bisexuality gets a bum rap. Many people– both gay and straight– think that either a) bisexuals are homosexuals still unwilling to come all the way out of the closet, b) bisexuals are just trying the gay-thing to be cool or get attention, or c) bisexuals are hyper horny and just don’t care who or what… [Read more…]
November 24, 2011
When it comes to vaginal sex, most people just do what comes natural. Anal sex is not so simple. That said, neither is it rocket science. By taking the proper precautions and keeping an open channel of communication, anal sex can be a fun, pain-free experience for both partners. Just follow your ABC’s: Anal lube:… [Read more…]
November 17, 2011
Anal sex has been on its way to becoming “normal” in straight sex– anal sex with women, that is. It’s odd, though, that more and more men want to stick their dicks into women’s asses. Sure, girls can find anal sex pleasurable. Certainly, it’s an exciting switch-up once in a while. But really, if it… [Read more…]
November 10, 2011
Dildos are no new phenomenon. Dildos were popularly used in such ancient civilizations as Egypt, China, Greece and Rome, and even during the Stone Age. However, dildos have radically changed in recent years– perhaps not in shape, but certainly in material. Most of our dildos, like everything else in 21st century life, are made of… [Read more…]
November 3, 2011
Human beings are the only animals that (willingly) wear clothes. As I’ve said in the past, humans have some good reasons to cover their vulnerable genitals. And, when humans began to migrate to colder climates, covering more of the body was the logical way to keep the body warm and dry. Then of course religion… [Read more…]
February 24, 2012
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